So Little Men


So Little Men…So Much Time 1.29.13

I was thinking…yeah that happens a lot. I look around at my friends, family and women in general and there are sooo many single women out there. I am not alone after all. In fact it seems to be that I have joined the larger population women alone vs women in a relationship… Why is that? As I ask the answer all tend to seem the same…no one of quality to choose from. No one to choose from at all. And if these men are single …That is scary too…Why are they single? What is wrong that they are single? That old saying holds true..” No wonder they are single!” (Funny we never say…uh hello we are single too).

But let us get back to my inquiry…. Where are all the men? Why are there so little men to choose from? Should we be alarmed? Should we do something about it? Like clone them like they did those sheep in the 90’s? Do we want a world with more men than we have now? Wow I shudder to think what could that mean to deep thinking..move on. One friend told me that there are 10 women for every men out there…could this be true? Do we have to revert back to the days of the Harems where there is one man and 10 wives? I mean it does happen to this day…maybe that is why it happens.

I heard of one Morman setting where a large family lived and every wife had her own room and the husband would take turns going to each room each night. I am telling you right now that would not work for me because I would be standing at my door every night saying, Hey it’s my turn again! Oh hell no you are not staying with her tonight you better get your butt in my room now! Catalina doesn’t play nice in the sandbox! They would be starting a reality show on my house staring me, Morman Mean Girl!

It may be that true happiness lies in not living happily ever after with a man by your side. What is happening is that women fearing being by their side end up with some half-assed cheating, weirdo man because they feel they have to be with someone. Who says so? Being alone doesn’t have to mean loneliness and sadness…there is an African proverb that goes…it is better to travel alone than with a bad companion.

2 thoughts on “So Little Men

  1. Girl I say that all the time. I would rather be alone than in an unhappy relationship. I am much happier with my pups, my family, and my friends. I just won’t settle for less than happy, I mean this is your life companion that you will be spending most of your time with. I would love to have a great companion that I enjoy and we have a lot in common and make each other better. I will not settle for some creep who makes me unhappy and worse for his company. Alone at least I get to decide whether I have a good day and how I will spend it. That’s my take anyway. 🙂


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