Men Suck the Life Out of Me!! 3.11.13
Here we go again, another depressing moment. We are feeling blue. What did that man do or not do. We just don’t feel like doing anything do we?

When our face is down in the mud and the worms are crawling around our head, mud packed so heavy on our lids, it is real hard to see the sunlight isn’t it? When mud is wet, it can be really heavy and when we don’t feel like it, it is easier just to lay there in the warmth of the mud. I guess it is kinda warm. Isn’t that why pigs lie in it?

Now a few hundred yards away is a water hose, you could rinse off that mud, but man, that water is gonna be awful cold, man it is gonna be real uncomfortable.

Naw too cold, gonna just lay in the warm mud, comfy like a hog.

Think of happiness as the sun, it is out there. Can you see it, doyou want it? Not enough. You don’t want to get out of your comfort zone…huh Pigpen! Get yo lazy azz outta that dirty mud and walk over to that cold water, freeze yo butt off and clean that stuff outta your eyes so you can see the sun, be warmed and dried by the sun. It takes effort. You have to choose to have to do something sometimes you don’t want to and there is discomfort at times too, but at the end…ahhh I can see clearly now ….

You have to choose to be happy. You have to make up your mind this is what you want
Happiness is not about cars, men, marriage, boats, jobs, it is about your attitude!

So man, no man…you can be sad worried and at the same time in your hear have an attitude of contentment and happiness with this world and you because you know in the end everything in the world is right.

Put your hear, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success. This is a quote from some guy named Swami Sivananda…Now we know when men with the name of Swami say ANYTHING we best believe it is true. He is saying put your all into it and we can make anything happen so get it girl!!!

No man can take anything from us, not out spirit, not our will to go on, not our not our happiness, nothing, he can’t touch us, we are stronger than we think we are…sticks and stones…


  1. janineyork says:

    Girl, I know that’s right!!


  2. reocochran says:

    It is especially hard to get out of the mud when the pain is so real and it is so new. But each day, put one foot in front of the other, they say to try to smile and it will help heal you. Because you will get smiles back. I remember the pain, all too well. Take care, sweetie! Robin


    1. Yes I found my way to that cold water hose and I can see clearly…I have a few specks of dirts but for the most part my happiness is better than it has ever been in my life. Thank you God…Thank you friends…and boy does this blog help


  3. Joli.Amour says:

    You’ll be fine. It’ll get better each day. Learn to love yourself and find out who you are.


  4. sonnea1775 says:

    i know the feeling..


  5. Many of us know the feeling hun, that is why we are all here, expressing ourselves, growing, healing.


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