CAN YOU LEAVE HIM????
There is one fear that keeps woman from moving on, that keeps you stuck if you are unhappy and miserable in a marriage. You know you want to go, yeah, maybe you love him. But are you miserable?
Leaving, let me count the ways..
- Get an attorney
- File for divorce
- Have to figure assets, pensions
- Do you have kids, what about custody, support
- Figure out who gets the house, division of property
- Having that talk to the kids, the friends, the family
PACK YOUR BAG AND GET THE HECK OUTTA DODGE!
I was the latter, I don’t have a house to divide, no nothing, yet I thought of every excuse that there is no way I could make it out there. The struggle would be too much. The finances were my biggest worries. I would have to go without cable, internet, no more shopping sprees for new stilettos, eating out with the girlie girls. I was a big spender and literally made it check to check.
Now read what I said that I would have to give up. If someone would have asked me to pick one,
1. Peace and happiness or
2. Cable, internet and stilettos, which do you choose? Wow, what a concept.
The more you have the more you spend. I have to admit, I do buy a lot of silly unnecessary items.
That is me ignoring my marriage is dead, or died. The funeral has been over, there is no love on his part. So what gives?