ENDLESS NIGHT….

ENDLESS NIGHTS… There was a time I sat at my window more times than I could count vigilantly watching for him to come home as nights turned into morn Time after time I jumped up to peer nope, that wasn't him either It didn't matter if a hundred cars passed A hundred times I jumped … Continue reading ENDLESS NIGHT….

HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to water … Continue reading HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends and … Continue reading AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….

HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE No, no don’t panic! Christmas isn’t coming. But we do have Mother’s and Father’s Days coming. Hmmm. I bring this up because I said something about Father’s day to my daughter and she shot me this look as if I told her I was about to marry an ape, the discust … Continue reading HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!! Being on the dumpee side…I think it is important to try to make myself look and feel beautiful…let’s look at what we as women can do to always take care of us superficially…yes I said the taboo word…SUPERFICIALLY!!! They say beauty is skin deep, you are more beautiful on the inside, well … Continue reading FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!

I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING!!!

I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING Why am I supposed to wait to date? I am being honest and real, I didn’t wait. I liked someone so I went at it. Yikes…bad girl! Bad girl! I was never one that sat too well with rules, my aunt worked at Mattel and she had one of … Continue reading I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING!!!

THE EVIL INSIDE OF YOU….

THE EVIL INSIDE OF YOU I could see the face of evil I could see it when it came What brought it on I did not know one time I gave you the wrong change   In a flash like a dark bulb the light would change I wouldn’t know you anymore   Your black … Continue reading THE EVIL INSIDE OF YOU….