HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to waterContinue reading “HOW TO TREAT A MATE…”

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends andContinue reading “AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…”

HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….

HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE No, no don’t panic! Christmas isn’t coming. But we do have Mother’s and Father’s Days coming. Hmmm. I bring this up because I said something about Father’s day to my daughter and she shot me this look as if I told her I was about to marry an ape, the discustContinue reading “HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….”

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!! Being on the dumpee side…I think it is important to try to make myself look and feel beautiful…let’s look at what we as women can do to always take care of us superficially…yes I said the taboo word…SUPERFICIALLY!!! They say beauty is skin deep, you are more beautiful on the inside, wellContinue reading “FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!”