AM I GROWING OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK????
Holy Guacamole! Ok all those pretty motivational words that I have been preaching on the top of my mountain top, any mountain top, because “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough!”, because no man is going to take my serenity away from this Super Chick! Right!
I don’t know how well people have been following me, but I started this blog because resentment is a big factor for me. My husband owes Uncle Sam big time. I had no idea how much but I know that I could not do a self-divorce, I could not do any divorce because as soon as I would, that would call attention to my 70K pension and whatever amount he owed Mr. Uncle Sam, my pension would pay because like assets are community property, bills are also considered community property.
This has been weighing very, very heavy on my serenity. Today I find out that his bill is $60,000. That will pretty much wipe me out clean. So he is paying for a tax specialist to assist us because he is willing to do what it takes to help me so that this bill becomes only his responsibility. I have to admit I am impressed with this.
There is a catch. I will be driving for over an hour in the same vehicle with him to and from this appointment. I suggested I take my own car and he said let’s be adults and just take one car because he is doing me a favor. This will be my test of how well I have grown in my serenity and like he said… as an adult.