TRUST…

TRUST... Some areas I have not tapped into working on. Some areas are still scary and hurt. It is scarier and more painful than abuse to me. Trust. I don’t think about it. I don’t discuss it. I don’t even want to delve into it. I tell myself I trust all until you give me … Continue reading TRUST…

HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to water … Continue reading HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING!!!

I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING Why am I supposed to wait to date? I am being honest and real, I didn’t wait. I liked someone so I went at it. Yikes…bad girl! Bad girl! I was never one that sat too well with rules, my aunt worked at Mattel and she had one of … Continue reading I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING!!!

WAKE UP INNER GODDESS!!!!

WAKE UP INNER GODDESS!!! Let’s talk about something a little taboo shall we? Let’s get a little naughty shall we? Shall we pretend we are bad little kids huddled in a fort with our curiosity going a little on the wild side and let the topic go off a little tiny bit sexy…not raunchy…not obscene…just … Continue reading WAKE UP INNER GODDESS!!!!

MAYBE I’M READY TO THINK ABOUT MEN

MAYBE I WANT TO THINK OF A MAN NOW I am well aware of the new thoughts of the nowadays…it is not about finding happiness in a man, don’t look for love until you learn to love yourself…yeah yeah yeah…I know all about that song and dance. I think I wrote that book, or at … Continue reading MAYBE I’M READY TO THINK ABOUT MEN

FEELING VOID WITHOUT A MAN!!!

Friends Fill a Man Void!! I admit I have been feeling a void lately. Some sort of emptiness in my gut. Symptoms? • Maybe a little, not so much sad, I’m past that stage. More like blah! Know what I mean? Don’t get me wrong, I can still get up in the morning and bounce … Continue reading FEELING VOID WITHOUT A MAN!!!

READY TO DATE AGAIN!!!

Are We Ready To Date I have been focusing more and more on jumping back on the saddle (dating) because guess what, some of us feel that it is a good pain buffer. This is not for everyone. I will never ever be talking about booty call. If you feel you are-a- together kind of … Continue reading READY TO DATE AGAIN!!!

I DEMAND RESPECT NOW!!!

Respect From a Man Today is a new day my lady friends, my chickadees! We are all in different stages of separation, some of us cannot fathom the thought of another man. Yeah right they can’t get the after taste of the one they just got rid of out of their mouth…eww not what I … Continue reading I DEMAND RESPECT NOW!!!

LEARNING TO TRUST AGAIN!!

LEARNING TO TRUST AGAIN 2.28.13 I just came out of a really bad relationship. Wow really bad. I knew I was not going to go commit into any relationships but I did want to date. The question I was running into in my head was a really big issue…trusting a man. Ya see in my … Continue reading LEARNING TO TRUST AGAIN!!

So Little Men

    So Little Men…So Much Time  I was thinking…yeah that happens a lot. I look around at my friends, family and women in general and there are sooo many single women out there. I am not alone after all. In fact it seems to be that I have joined the larger population women alone … Continue reading So Little Men