Category: Independent, Alone & OK

My Mother Came to Me Last Night

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Healing From Head to Toe, Independent, Alone & OK

My Mother, My All Tomorrow marks one week that my mother was taken from my life yet I was not prepared for her to come to me. I cried out into the night, "Momma!" I wailed her name over and over so hard my entire body shook. When I stopped I was told that my … Continue reading My Mother Came to Me Last Night →

You Begin a New Life, Till You Close the Book on your Old Life

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Healing From Head to Toe, Independent, Alone & OK

If you are unhappy with your life... heck even your very existence, why don't you stop complaining and change it. You are the writer of your story. But my book is written, girl meets boy, it's love at first sight, you kiss and kapow! Fireworks shoot off into the sky filling every crevice of Earth … Continue reading You Begin a New Life, Till You Close the Book on your Old Life →

My Ex and I Are Going To Be Grandparents!

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Independent, Alone & OK, Kids, Family & Friends

There was a time when I refused to attend my family's Thanksgiving Dinner because I found out that my ex was going. Can you believe it? That was my blood family! It wasn't my fault that his parents and only brother died, he is the one who wanted to end the marriage so my family … Continue reading My Ex and I Are Going To Be Grandparents! →

Worst Question I Could’ve Asked My Ex

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Independent, Alone & OK

Once you click "send", it's too late...it is gone and you cant take it back. Tonight after 6 years apart I sent him a text, "Are you over me forever?" The question hung out in that cyber air, floating like a wayward deflating balloon a day too old. Not quite enough helium to make it … Continue reading Worst Question I Could’ve Asked My Ex →

Killer, “Are You Still Single?” Comebacks!

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Independent, Alone & OK

Yay, the holidays are coming! Can hardly wait to sit around that family table, when all attention spotlights on you and that infamous question comes, "Are you still single?" Really? Amongst the sea of coupled up cousins and siblings, there you sit...ALONE! Ugh no more. I have compiled a list of comebacks that will move … Continue reading Killer, “Are You Still Single?” Comebacks! →

Is There Such A Thing As Being Single Too Long?

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Independent, Alone & OK

Decades ago, it was unheard of to not have a husband. They used to call you "Spinster". Nowadays, the trend seems to be, "You don't need a man to be complete." What changed? Women becoming independent and self-supporting has something to do with it. More imortantly women realizing they don't need to put up "with … Continue reading Is There Such A Thing As Being Single Too Long? →

TIME TO SPREAD MY WINGS AND FLY….

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Independent, Alone & OK

Starting Over After 50

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TIME TO SPREAD MY WINGS AND FLY

What the hell have I been whining about. It has been like two or three weeks that I have been on my pity potty whining like a one year old who lost her pacifier.

“I’m lonely!”

“I’m afraid of the dark!”

“It’s dark, somebody hold me!”

Come on what am I three? Maybe I need to stop wearing my Sponge Bob jammies with the feet in them and start wearing my see through black lacy teddy and start strutting my stuff through my apartment and act like a big girl! Ok at least just some flannels.

Today is the day that I stomp my feather high heel slipper on the floor and say enough is enough! No more I’m lonely blogs! No more dragging my poor Happy Princess 26 year old daughter and holding her hostage to save “mommy” and watch the Voice…

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The Support You Need is Out There…

Posted on by Catalina Zamora in Independent, Alone & OK

I packed my bags, and jus started driving to destination unknown. I got mad, I have been a caterpillar way too long. It's time to break out of this cocoon that threatened to suffocate me. Time to do what feels uncomfortable, drive, venture out, and alone. Visions of me up in the mountains danced around … Continue reading The Support You Need is Out There… →