The Support You Need is Out There…

I packed my bags, and jus started driving to destination unknown. I got mad, I have been a caterpillar way too long. It's time to break out of this cocoon that threatened to suffocate me. Time to do what feels uncomfortable, drive, venture out, and alone. Visions of me up in the mountains danced around … Continue reading The Support You Need is Out There…


Starting Over After 50


I was just told, in order to properly heal, I have to mourn the end of one relationship before starting a new one. One step further, for up to six months!

The concept of being alone is this to “find myself”. What exactly am I finding? What does this mean? Am I on the back of a milk carton reported missing? Because last time I checked, I never left.

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Starting Over After 50


Oh the webs we weave, ok! My quest for love continues. It is a journey that I continue to climb the highest mountain in pursuit of.

The mountain I left didn’t have it, my husband. I climbed it all the way to the top. Oh, what a jagged, rocky high mountain it was. Full of peaks and loose rocks. So many times I lost my footage, but I continued my climb. I was sure that I would find what I was looking for.  If I pushed forward and could just reach the top.  But two peaks up, and I would fall three peaks down.

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Starting Over After 50


Visions of sugarplums dance in my head. They are dancing around and they seem so real, the sweet sugary taste tantalize my taste buds and I want to consume them up. The deep frosty purple glisten as they swirl round and round threatening to burst with the sweet nectar they are filled with.

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Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

Starting Over After 50


Divorce is easy…so I thought!
Didn’t even I thought!
I thought I was the divorce guru.  My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me.  Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeks I was taking off to Vegas to see shows and play with my new man.

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14 Logical Ways to Know You May Be Dating Mr. Right!

Starting Over After 50

Divorcee Go Wings/Dating

To find a good man we need to think about what we want in a man.  The traits I accumulated are key to finding a great guy.
No more settling.  No more Mr. Losers for us.  Because we are perfect women and this time around we want a man who is going to be worthy of us.  I have searched the web and came up with these 14 traits, gestures and behaviors that I found the most important.

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Starting Over After 50


Are you obsessed? Yes, I am talking to you.
Calling him a million and one times.
Checking his Face book, “Who the hell is that friend?”  “Let me look her up on FB.” “Damn, she is slutty, Imma call him right now!” “Why is it going straight to voice mail?” “Imma shoot him an IM, he needs to know my feelings”,  “Ugh, forgot to tell him how I felt last night, it’s 3 a.m.,  I need to say this in person…where’s my keys?” ONCE YOU START HOW DO YOU STOP!!! It becomes an addiction.

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