TRUST…

Starting Over After 50

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TRUST…

Some areas I have not tapped into working on. Some areas are still scary and hurt. It is scarier and more painful than abuse to me.

Trust.

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TEACH ME HOW TO BE SINGLE!

Starting Over After 50

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I was just told, in order to properly heal, I have to mourn the end of one relationship before starting a new one. One step further, for up to six months!

The concept of being alone is this to “find myself”. What exactly am I finding? What does this mean? Am I on the back of a milk carton reported missing? Because last time I checked, I never left.

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CLIMBING FOR LOVE…

Starting Over After 50

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Oh the webs we weave, ok! My quest for love continues. It is a journey that I continue to climb the highest mountain in pursuit of.

The mountain I left didn’t have it, my husband. I climbed it all the way to the top. Oh, what a jagged, rocky high mountain it was. Full of peaks and loose rocks. So many times I lost my footage, but I continued my climb. I was sure that I would find what I was looking for.  If I pushed forward and could just reach the top.  But two peaks up, and I would fall three peaks down.

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THE ILLUSION OF LOVE

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Visions of sugarplums dance in my head. They are dancing around and they seem so real, the sweet sugary taste tantalize my taste buds and I want to consume them up. The deep frosty purple glisten as they swirl round and round threatening to burst with the sweet nectar they are filled with.

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Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

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Divorce is easy…so I thought!
 
Didn’t even hurt..so I thought!
 
I thought I was the divorce guru.  My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me.  Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeks I was taking off to Vegas to see shows and play with my new man.

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14 Logical Ways to Know You May Be Dating Mr. Right!

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To find a good man we need to think about what we want in a man.  The traits I accumulated are key to finding a great guy.
 
No more settling.  No more Mr. Losers for us.  Because we are perfect women and this time around we want a man who is going to be worthy of us.  I have searched the web and came up with these 14 traits, gestures and behaviors that I found the most important.

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When You Think Nobody Will Ever Compare to Your Ex

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So you are back to dating, yet you find yourself comparing or looking for someone like your ex.

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There is a reason why you feel nobody measures up to your ex.
 
You are not quite ready to date.
 
What is the solution you ask? Good question!

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