Break-ups and Depression

Separating from my husband made me face an ongoing issue I have struggled with since I can remember,I have depression. The kind of depression Robin Williams suffered from. Going through a devastating challenge like realizing my husband was now in love with someone else, didn’t work great with this depression. Life was never easy forContinue reading “Break-ups and Depression”

Depression Kills…Please Make This Viral

  This is so hard to watch, many will turn it off immediately and think, how negative!  Consider it more negative if we continue to dismiss that suicide increases by leaps and bounds everyday.  Why is that when there are so many new pills out.  Shouldn’t these depressed people get over it by now.  Geez,Continue reading “Depression Kills…Please Make This Viral”

The Priviledge of Aging Gracefully

To all my female friends of “age”… Most of us are going through the next stage of our lives. We are at that age where we see the wrinkles, gray hair, extra pounds. We see the pretty 25 year olds and sigh. But, we were once 25 too, just like they will one day beContinue reading “The Priviledge of Aging Gracefully”

Signs You Are Getting Bitter! 

Now I am not going to say that I never get bitter, it is natural especially if you were the one that was left.  Watch yourself and if you start talking like this, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY GETTING BITTER!  Bitter alert, bitter alert! Don’t sound like this: “Did you see his new ho, she is hideous!”Continue reading “Signs You Are Getting Bitter! “

GOD IS STILL WORKING ON ME

GOD IS STILL WORKING ON ME To the single women out there, are you like me and your focus is where are all the single men.  Are you thinking you know what will make you whole again…a real nice man?  Really?  I am laying here thinking so very different little by little every day.  Don’tContinue reading “GOD IS STILL WORKING ON ME”

Will Time Heal This Loneliness

Will Time Heal This Loneliness? Can you believe it has been almost 2 years since I separated with my husband, and a year and a half since I had a boyfriend. It says that you should wait and heal. Don’t jump into another relationship too fast…So that is what I have done. Yup, waiting andContinue reading “Will Time Heal This Loneliness”

THIS INDEPENDANT WOMAN JUST WANTS TO REST….

MY WEARY BODY…. I am having a mini meltdown but I have to allow myself to have this. I have to let it out of my system so it doesn’t bottle up and then I need to dry my eyes, roll up my sleeves and get back to work. But for now I have toContinue reading “THIS INDEPENDANT WOMAN JUST WANTS TO REST….”

FINDING MYSELF!!!

Anyone that has went through or going through a break up or divorce has to admit that there were some signs.  Most of us had those signs of unhappiness.  Can you claim, why did he leave you because you were so happy with him and now you are not.  I will give you that youContinue reading “FINDING MYSELF!!!”

I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!

  Some guy came on to me today and honey let me tell you he was hot hot.  Total eye candy and I am sure, another kind of candy.  I have my shares of propositions and requests for dates and somehow it just doesn’t work out.  But this guy was tall, handsome, well dressed…he had itContinue reading “I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!”

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE   One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine.  Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite.  I wouldContinue reading “LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE”