You Begin a New Life, Till You Close the Book on your Old Life

If you are unhappy with your life... heck even your very existence, why don't you stop complaining and change it. You are the writer of your story. But my book is written, girl meets boy, it's love at first sight, you kiss and kapow! Fireworks shoot off into the sky filling every crevice of Earth … Continue reading You Begin a New Life, Till You Close the Book on your Old Life

When You Think Nobody Will Ever Compare to Your Ex

So you are back to dating, yet you find yourself comparing or looking for someone like your ex.   There is a reason why you feel nobody measures up to your ex.   You are not quite ready to date.   What is the solution you ask? Good question!   First of all it depends … Continue reading When You Think Nobody Will Ever Compare to Your Ex

Accepting He Is Divorcing Me and Has Moved On

My blogs have stopped because I felt I was unworthy of giving empowering words. Things were easy when I thought he was missing me and oh well I have a boyfriend who shows me attention. Life is great, I'm great and this divorce thing is a piece of cake... Then I kept getting dumped and … Continue reading Accepting He Is Divorcing Me and Has Moved On

A Mother to My Soul Mates

Have you ever thought, where is that Soul Mate everyone talks about? Or as my daughter said and my jaw dropped, "Kindred Spirit?" Oh yes, that is my enlightened girl!   It isn't always someone who has to put his "you know what" in your "you know what". It isn't even have to be someone … Continue reading A Mother to My Soul Mates

COME ON PAIN!!! I AM NOT AFRAID OF YOU!!!!

COME ON PAIN!!! I AM NOT AFRAID OF YOU!!! In my life I have learned that you cannot make someone feel what you want them to feel for you.  I have also learned that when you don’t seem to get the message they can get mean and inhumane about you pursuing them.  Move on girls.  … Continue reading COME ON PAIN!!! I AM NOT AFRAID OF YOU!!!!

GOD IS STILL WORKING ON ME

GOD IS STILL WORKING ON ME To the single women out there, are you like me and your focus is where are all the single men.  Are you thinking you know what will make you whole again…a real nice man?  Really?  I am laying here thinking so very different little by little every day.  Don’t … Continue reading GOD IS STILL WORKING ON ME

BECOMING FRIENDS WITH MY EX AGAIN

  What does it mean that I miss you I don’t want you back I don’t want you as mine   But I miss you to talk to And the exchange of our words   A funny thing happened So I picked up the phone   Then I remembered I hated you And put down … Continue reading BECOMING FRIENDS WITH MY EX AGAIN

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE   One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine.  Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite.  I would … Continue reading LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO EAT ALONE

Learning to Eat Alone I was extra hungry tonight. What a crazy day, it was so crazy I missed lunch, for me that is CRAZY because me missing a meal? Yeah right. Nobody is going to believe that. I grew up in a big Latin family and cooking is in my blood and it was … Continue reading LEARNING TO EAT ALONE