BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM Have you ever thought that maybe you are not happy with your life after divorce/separation because you don’t want to be?  Now, now, before you start sending me “hate” replies, keep reading so I can explain.  I watched this documentary on happiness and they showed this family that lived in SouthContinue reading “BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM”

Healing From A Divorce

Healing From a Divorce I picked up a book called…well maybe I shouldn’t blast the name of the book since I don’t want those two crazy …yes crazy…authors coming after me. I wouldn’t even line the bottom of a bird-cage for birds to poop on. I take it back, I do want birds to poopContinue reading “Healing From A Divorce”

SCREAM THE TRUTH…

SCREAM THE TRUTH TILL IT DOESN’T HURT Suppose your man left you for another woman. Suppose it hurts you to the core. Or maybe he just left you and you are still hurting. Whatever the reason, you are hurting and you want it to stop already. What are we supposed to do to get overContinue reading “SCREAM THE TRUTH…”

NO MORE BEING DEPRESSED IN BED!!!

I woke up and didn’t have to force myself to be happy, I just felt good. With time I am realizing that the moments of sadness are getting fewer and fewer. When I was with my husband I could not get out of bed. My life was about sleeping my life away. Don’t feel. Don’tContinue reading “NO MORE BEING DEPRESSED IN BED!!!”

I NEEDED TO KNOW IF HE EVER LOVED ME!!!

I NEEDED TO KNOW IF HE EVER LOVED ME… I am questioning myself, am I a good person, am I a selfish person, definitely I am a vindicated person, but is it selfish to feel this vindication. Flash back. Because all of you are sitting there thinking, what the heck is this crazy woman talkingContinue reading “I NEEDED TO KNOW IF HE EVER LOVED ME!!!”

LEAVE THE LOVE IN MY HEART ALONE….

LEAVE THE LOVE IN MY HEART ALONE! I am realizing he will always have part of my heart and I have to realize that that is ok. I have to get to a point where that small part he has in my heart is like a small potted flower and it is ok to nourishContinue reading “LEAVE THE LOVE IN MY HEART ALONE….”

WHO SAYS GOOD THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE!!!

WHO SAYS GOOD THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE!! When it looked like my entire pension would be wiped out because my husband committed fraud against the IRS. They told to give it to God. I was told to hurry and divorce my husband because my pension was growing and boy wouldn’t the IRS loveContinue reading “WHO SAYS GOOD THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE!!!”

DO YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE….I DO!!!

DO YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE…I DO! I feel this as sort as a testimony. I started this blog as sort as a place where I vented against my ugly monster husband. Yesterday when I saw him, I gave him a sincere hug. I am realizing something miraculous happening in my life people that IContinue reading “DO YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE….I DO!!!”

MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL….

MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL…. Does anyone remember the movie with Jack Black and Gwynth Paltrow Shallow Hal? Gwynth is a 300 pound woman but because Jack was hypnotized into loving her for her inner beauty, all he sees is an extremely beautiful woman with no flaws. He is so sincere when he tells herContinue reading “MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL….”

AM I GROWING UP OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK????

AM I GROWING OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK???? Holy Guacamole! Ok all those pretty motivational words that I have been preaching on the top of my mountain top, any mountain top, because “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough!”, because no man is going to take my serenity away from this Super Chick! Right! I don’tContinue reading “AM I GROWING UP OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK????”