SO YOU WANT TO HEAL It is called trudging… Do things you don’t want to do You just keep doing it Continue to “act as if” Even when you don’t want to The pain will still be there The I don’t want to’s will continue to be there And it’s no matter what you do … Continue reading SO YOU WANT TO HEAL…
DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!! Now I am realizing that my separation from my husband is my opportunity for a second life, a richer life, a happier life. I realize that I am awake now to life and all that it has available to me, things that I never took advantage of, things … Continue reading DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!!!
HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to water … Continue reading HOW TO TREAT A MATE…
AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends and … Continue reading AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…
HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE No, no don’t panic! Christmas isn’t coming. But we do have Mother’s and Father’s Days coming. Hmmm. I bring this up because I said something about Father’s day to my daughter and she shot me this look as if I told her I was about to marry an ape, the discust … Continue reading HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….
FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!! Being on the dumpee side…I think it is important to try to make myself look and feel beautiful…let’s look at what we as women can do to always take care of us superficially…yes I said the taboo word…SUPERFICIALLY!!! They say beauty is skin deep, you are more beautiful on the inside, well … Continue reading FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!
BROKEN IN LOVE I don’t feel secure…Is it you or is it me….I don’t know I have been hurt so much in the past I don’t know how this goes Maybe I moved too fast from one man to the next I feel sad…I don’t think I should feel like this am I Am I … Continue reading BROKEN IN LOVE
STOP YOUR WHINING!!!!! Ok I have to blast someone who was at my divorce support class. This lady was there before and she said the same think she said last time…ok let me give you an example: I am so unhappy with him! Why don’t you leave, isn’t this why you are in divorce support? … Continue reading STOP YOUR WHINING!!!
WAKE UP INNER GODDESS!!! Let’s talk about something a little taboo shall we? Let’s get a little naughty shall we? Shall we pretend we are bad little kids huddled in a fort with our curiosity going a little on the wild side and let the topic go off a little tiny bit sexy…not raunchy…not obscene…just … Continue reading WAKE UP INNER GODDESS!!!!
MY EPIPHANY!!! I just had an epiphany…Wow…not only did I have an epiphany, this is the first time that I ever used the word that I didn’t even know how to spell it, I had to look it up to make sure I knew how to spell it. But on to my epiphany…I have to … Continue reading MY EPIPHANY!!!!