WHAT ARE YOU ATTRACTING IN YOUR LIFE???? Today I looked at something I wrote a bit ago and thought, hmmm, this is a nice quote, “You attract love if you love yourself, you attract respect if you respect yourself.” Back to that quote, it inspires me. There was a time that I had no … Continue reading WHAT ARE YOU ATTRACTING IN YOUR LIFE?
DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!! Now I am realizing that my separation from my husband is my opportunity for a second life, a richer life, a happier life. I realize that I am awake now to life and all that it has available to me, things that I never took advantage of, things … Continue reading DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!!!
HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to water … Continue reading HOW TO TREAT A MATE…
AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends and … Continue reading AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…
HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE No, no don’t panic! Christmas isn’t coming. But we do have Mother’s and Father’s Days coming. Hmmm. I bring this up because I said something about Father’s day to my daughter and she shot me this look as if I told her I was about to marry an ape, the discust … Continue reading HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….
FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!! Being on the dumpee side…I think it is important to try to make myself look and feel beautiful…let’s look at what we as women can do to always take care of us superficially…yes I said the taboo word…SUPERFICIALLY!!! They say beauty is skin deep, you are more beautiful on the inside, well … Continue reading FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!
I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING Why am I supposed to wait to date? I am being honest and real, I didn’t wait. I liked someone so I went at it. Yikes…bad girl! Bad girl! I was never one that sat too well with rules, my aunt worked at Mattel and she had one of … Continue reading I COULDN’T WAIT TO START DATING!!!