HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to waterContinue reading “HOW TO TREAT A MATE…”

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!! Being on the dumpee side…I think it is important to try to make myself look and feel beautiful…let’s look at what we as women can do to always take care of us superficially…yes I said the taboo word…SUPERFICIALLY!!! They say beauty is skin deep, you are more beautiful on the inside, wellContinue reading “FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!”

BROKEN IN LOVE

BROKEN IN LOVE I don’t feel secure…Is it you or is it me….I don’t know I have been hurt so much in the past I don’t know how this goes Maybe I moved too fast from one man to the next I feel sad…I don’t think I should feel like this am I Am IContinue reading “BROKEN IN LOVE”

MAYBE I’M READY TO THINK ABOUT MEN

MAYBE I WANT TO THINK OF A MAN NOW I am well aware of the new thoughts of the nowadays…it is not about finding happiness in a man, don’t look for love until you learn to love yourself…yeah yeah yeah…I know all about that song and dance. I think I wrote that book, or atContinue reading “MAYBE I’M READY TO THINK ABOUT MEN”

READY TO DATE AGAIN!!!

Are We Ready To Date I have been focusing more and more on jumping back on the saddle (dating) because guess what, some of us feel that it is a good pain buffer. This is not for everyone. I will never ever be talking about booty call. If you feel you are-a- together kind ofContinue reading “READY TO DATE AGAIN!!!”

I DEMAND RESPECT NOW!!!

Respect From a Man Today is a new day my lady friends, my chickadees! We are all in different stages of separation, some of us cannot fathom the thought of another man. Yeah right they can’t get the after taste of the one they just got rid of out of their mouth…eww not what IContinue reading “I DEMAND RESPECT NOW!!!”

MEET YOUR NEW STEPMOTHER!!!

Say Hi To Your New Step Mother! Holy Shit! Say What! Yeah most kids cuss in their heads. Alright maybe I was a rotten kid…whatever. Has this happened already in your life…that is if you have kids, small kids. Every situation is different. Let’s look at it through different eyes. Either they are going toContinue reading “MEET YOUR NEW STEPMOTHER!!!”

So Little Men

    So Little Men…So Much Time  I was thinking…yeah that happens a lot. I look around at my friends, family and women in general and there are sooo many single women out there. I am not alone after all. In fact it seems to be that I have joined the larger population women aloneContinue reading “So Little Men”