LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE   One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine.  Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite.  I wouldContinue reading “LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE”

LEARNING TO EAT ALONE

Learning to Eat Alone I was extra hungry tonight. What a crazy day, it was so crazy I missed lunch, for me that is CRAZY because me missing a meal? Yeah right. Nobody is going to believe that. I grew up in a big Latin family and cooking is in my blood and it wasContinue reading “LEARNING TO EAT ALONE”

Tranquility Pools

  Tranquility Pools What is this I feel in my heart What is this I feel in my soul The thrashing of the oceans have stopped The crushing of waves against the cliffs have ceased All this I carried within every part of me Developed by pain, anger, resentment At times the tides were soContinue reading “Tranquility Pools”

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM Have you ever thought that maybe you are not happy with your life after divorce/separation because you don’t want to be?  Now, now, before you start sending me “hate” replies, keep reading so I can explain.  I watched this documentary on happiness and they showed this family that lived in SouthContinue reading “BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM”

Healing From A Divorce

Healing From a Divorce I picked up a book called…well maybe I shouldn’t blast the name of the book since I don’t want those two crazy …yes crazy…authors coming after me. I wouldn’t even line the bottom of a bird-cage for birds to poop on. I take it back, I do want birds to poopContinue reading “Healing From A Divorce”

YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY

SOMETIMES OUR MINDS ARE OUR WORST ENEMIES Through my divorce I have come to learn so much about myself, what makes me tick, who I am. I have come to the conclusion that I am not Miss Superwoman. I am a work in process. Divorce is like death and I knew it wouldnt be overnightexpectContinue reading “YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY”

HOME ALONE!!!

HOME ALONE!!! By far the hardest challenge you will face with divorce will be the loneliness. I felt I lost my purpose, there was nobody to go home to after work, cook for, talk to, “Hey how was your day”. Nobody to sit and watch television with. But mostly there was nobody to lay downContinue reading “HOME ALONE!!!”

SCREAM THE TRUTH…

SCREAM THE TRUTH TILL IT DOESN’T HURT Suppose your man left you for another woman. Suppose it hurts you to the core. Or maybe he just left you and you are still hurting. Whatever the reason, you are hurting and you want it to stop already. What are we supposed to do to get overContinue reading “SCREAM THE TRUTH…”

MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND….

MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND Today I had a heavy heart. It was for my husband. You see I have a gift that I like to call intuition, some people call me bruja, some people call me gifted, others see it as going against God because you shouldn’t see what the future brings. HeyContinue reading “MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND….”

I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND!

I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND! As I look back at my blogs, they are kinda bashing on my ex aren’t they. But that is ok, because he really was not a nice person to me. Why is it that everyone that knows him thinks he is the nicest person in the world? CouldContinue reading “I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND!”