I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!

  Some guy came on to me today and honey let me tell you he was hot hot.  Total eye candy and I am sure, another kind of candy.  I have my shares of propositions and requests for dates and somehow it just doesn’t work out.  But this guy was tall, handsome, well dressed…he had it … Continue reading I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE   One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine.  Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite.  I would … Continue reading LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO EAT ALONE

Learning to Eat Alone I was extra hungry tonight. What a crazy day, it was so crazy I missed lunch, for me that is CRAZY because me missing a meal? Yeah right. Nobody is going to believe that. I grew up in a big Latin family and cooking is in my blood and it was … Continue reading LEARNING TO EAT ALONE

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM Have you ever thought that maybe you are not happy with your life after divorce/separation because you don’t want to be?  Now, now, before you start sending me “hate” replies, keep reading so I can explain.  I watched this documentary on happiness and they showed this family that lived in South … Continue reading BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM

Healing From A Divorce

Healing From a Divorce I picked up a book called…well maybe I shouldn’t blast the name of the book since I don’t want those two crazy …yes crazy…authors coming after me. I wouldn’t even line the bottom of a bird-cage for birds to poop on. I take it back, I do want birds to poop … Continue reading Healing From A Divorce

MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND….

MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND Today I had a heavy heart. It was for my husband. You see I have a gift that I like to call intuition, some people call me bruja, some people call me gifted, others see it as going against God because you shouldn’t see what the future brings. Hey … Continue reading MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND….

NO MORE BEING DEPRESSED IN BED!!!

I woke up and didn't have to force myself to be happy, I just felt good. With time I am realizing that the moments of sadness are getting fewer and fewer. When I was with my husband I could not get out of bed. My life was about sleeping my life away. Don’t feel. Don’t … Continue reading NO MORE BEING DEPRESSED IN BED!!!

LEAVE THE LOVE IN MY HEART ALONE….

LEAVE THE LOVE IN MY HEART ALONE! I am realizing he will always have part of my heart and I have to realize that that is ok. I have to get to a point where that small part he has in my heart is like a small potted flower and it is ok to nourish … Continue reading LEAVE THE LOVE IN MY HEART ALONE….

WHO SAYS GOOD THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE!!!

WHO SAYS GOOD THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE!! When it looked like my entire pension would be wiped out because my husband committed fraud against the IRS. They told to give it to God. I was told to hurry and divorce my husband because my pension was growing and boy wouldn’t the IRS love … Continue reading WHO SAYS GOOD THINGS DON’T HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE!!!

DO YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE….I DO!!!

DO YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE…I DO! I feel this as sort as a testimony. I started this blog as sort as a place where I vented against my ugly monster husband. Yesterday when I saw him, I gave him a sincere hug. I am realizing something miraculous happening in my life people that I … Continue reading DO YOU WANT A BETTER LIFE….I DO!!!