MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL….

MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL…. Does anyone remember the movie with Jack Black and Gwynth Paltrow Shallow Hal? Gwynth is a 300 pound woman but because Jack was hypnotized into loving her for her inner beauty, all he sees is an extremely beautiful woman with no flaws. He is so sincere when he tells herContinue reading “MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL….”

AM I GROWING UP OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK????

AM I GROWING OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK???? Holy Guacamole! Ok all those pretty motivational words that I have been preaching on the top of my mountain top, any mountain top, because “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough!”, because no man is going to take my serenity away from this Super Chick! Right! I don’tContinue reading “AM I GROWING UP OR IS IT ALL JUST TALK????”

AIN’T NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH!!!!

AIN’T NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH!!! I am real big on empowering myself as a woman now. I am in the process of crawling out of that cocoon and I feel those beautiful butterfly wings just aching to burst out full and proud. I am real big on two people right now for two very differentContinue reading “AIN’T NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH!!!!”

KILLING ME SOFTLY…FOR MY OWN GOOD

HE KILLING ME SOFTLY…FOR MY OWN GOOD Romantically drawn to him no more He killed my heart towards him Severed the true love a wife should have I know I could never be true to him any more The look of discust on his face As I cried out in pain Sent up a metalContinue reading “KILLING ME SOFTLY…FOR MY OWN GOOD”

SO YOU WANT TO HEAL…

SO YOU WANT TO HEAL It is called trudging… Do things you don’t want to do You just keep doing it Continue to “act as if” Even when you don’t want to The pain will still be there The I don’t want to’s will continue to be there And it’s no matter what you doContinue reading “SO YOU WANT TO HEAL…”

DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!!!

DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!! Now I am realizing that my separation from my husband is my opportunity for a second life, a richer life, a happier life. I realize that I am awake now to life and all that it has available to me, things that I never took advantage of, thingsContinue reading “DIVORCE HAS GIVEN ME A SECOND LIFE!!!”

HOW TO TREAT A MATE…

HOW TO TREAT YOUR MATE But I still wonder how does one learn how to be a good mate. I have good common sense. You show respect and treat them well. Be loving and attentive but allow them space. They need to be who they want to be. They need to be able to waterContinue reading “HOW TO TREAT A MATE…”

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends andContinue reading “AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…”

HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….

HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE No, no don’t panic! Christmas isn’t coming. But we do have Mother’s and Father’s Days coming. Hmmm. I bring this up because I said something about Father’s day to my daughter and she shot me this look as if I told her I was about to marry an ape, the discustContinue reading “HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE….”

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!

FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!! Being on the dumpee side…I think it is important to try to make myself look and feel beautiful…let’s look at what we as women can do to always take care of us superficially…yes I said the taboo word…SUPERFICIALLY!!! They say beauty is skin deep, you are more beautiful on the inside, wellContinue reading “FEELING BEAUTIFUL AGAIN!!!”