When He Moves On And You Are Still Alone

  Which one is it? Why don't I want to date? I say it is because I am taking time I say there is nobody out there I say I don't care that he has moved on but the knot in my stomach knows so I'm at the point where I should be dating I'm … Continue reading When He Moves On And You Are Still Alone

Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

Divorce is easy...so I thought!   Didn't even hurt..so I thought!   I thought I was the divorce guru.  My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me.  Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeks … Continue reading Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

Will Time Heal This Loneliness

Will Time Heal This Loneliness? Can you believe it has been almost 2 years since I separated with my husband, and a year and a half since I had a boyfriend. It says that you should wait and heal. Don't jump into another relationship too fast...So that is what I have done. Yup, waiting and … Continue reading Will Time Heal This Loneliness

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE   One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine.  Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite.  I would … Continue reading LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY

SOMETIMES OUR MINDS ARE OUR WORST ENEMIES Through my divorce I have come to learn so much about myself, what makes me tick, who I am. I have come to the conclusion that I am not Miss Superwoman. I am a work in process. Divorce is like death and I knew it wouldnt be overnightexpect … Continue reading YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY

I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND!

I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND! As I look back at my blogs, they are kinda bashing on my ex aren’t they. But that is ok, because he really was not a nice person to me. Why is it that everyone that knows him thinks he is the nicest person in the world? Could … Continue reading I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND!

FATHER’S DAY DOESN’T INCLUDE ME ANYMORE…

FATHER’S DAY DOESN’T INCLUDE ME ANYMORE… It was Father’s Day. I didn’t like it. I felt left out. I felt prepared and everything. I mean come on it isn’t like my ex is “my” father or anything. Not to mention I had the best Mother’s Day ever. I knew it was coming too because the … Continue reading FATHER’S DAY DOESN’T INCLUDE ME ANYMORE…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends and … Continue reading AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

MY EPIPHANY!!!!

MY EPIPHANY!!! I just had an epiphany…Wow…not only did I have an epiphany, this is the first time that I ever used the word that I didn’t even know how to spell it, I had to look it up to make sure I knew how to spell it. But on to my epiphany…I have to … Continue reading MY EPIPHANY!!!!

LONELY PEOPLE

COMBATTING LONELINESS DAY 1 Goal was to become visit people, meet people, go around people. In other words stop being a wah wah all by myself at home and be social. I could do that…me social butterfly…I can do that. I went to my mother and visited. I had a good time. So good I … Continue reading LONELY PEOPLE