Lonely Nights Are a Bore

What is wrong with me at night, I can’t find my comfort place I roll this way, I roll that way and wake up all night long Ahh! I get up and move my whole bedroom furniture around My bed placed right up against the wall I fall asleep instantly, my back against the wallContinue reading “Lonely Nights Are a Bore”

When He Moves On And You Are Still Alone

  Which one is it? Why don’t I want to date? I say it is because I am taking time I say there is nobody out there I say I don’t care that he has moved on but the knot in my stomach knows so I’m at the point where I should be dating I’mContinue reading “When He Moves On And You Are Still Alone”

Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

Divorce is easy…so I thought!   Didn’t even hurt..so I thought!   I thought I was the divorce guru.  My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me.  Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeksContinue reading “Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!”

Will Time Heal This Loneliness

Will Time Heal This Loneliness? Can you believe it has been almost 2 years since I separated with my husband, and a year and a half since I had a boyfriend. It says that you should wait and heal. Don’t jump into another relationship too fast…So that is what I have done. Yup, waiting andContinue reading “Will Time Heal This Loneliness”

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE

LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE   One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine.  Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite.  I wouldContinue reading “LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE”

YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY

SOMETIMES OUR MINDS ARE OUR WORST ENEMIES Through my divorce I have come to learn so much about myself, what makes me tick, who I am. I have come to the conclusion that I am not Miss Superwoman. I am a work in process. Divorce is like death and I knew it wouldnt be overnightexpectContinue reading “YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY”

I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND!

I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND! As I look back at my blogs, they are kinda bashing on my ex aren’t they. But that is ok, because he really was not a nice person to me. Why is it that everyone that knows him thinks he is the nicest person in the world? CouldContinue reading “I CHOOSE TO STOP HATING MY HUSBAND!”

FATHER’S DAY DOESN’T INCLUDE ME ANYMORE…

FATHER’S DAY DOESN’T INCLUDE ME ANYMORE… It was Father’s Day. I didn’t like it. I felt left out. I felt prepared and everything. I mean come on it isn’t like my ex is “my” father or anything. Not to mention I had the best Mother’s Day ever. I knew it was coming too because theContinue reading “FATHER’S DAY DOESN’T INCLUDE ME ANYMORE…”

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…

AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES I can remember the days of sitting at home. My life went into a stand still. My friends went here and there and I stayed home waiting because what if just what if my husband would take time off his self-centered life that was all about drinking, surfing and his friends andContinue reading “AS LONELINESS SUBSIDES…”

MY EPIPHANY!!!!

MY EPIPHANY!!! I just had an epiphany…Wow…not only did I have an epiphany, this is the first time that I ever used the word that I didn’t even know how to spell it, I had to look it up to make sure I knew how to spell it. But on to my epiphany…I have toContinue reading “MY EPIPHANY!!!!”