Now I am not going to say that I never get bitter, it is natural especially if you were the one that was left. Watch yourself and if you start talking like this, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY GETTING BITTER! Bitter alert, bitter alert! Don’t sound like this: “Did you see his new ho, she is hideous!” … Continue reading Signs You Are Getting Bitter!
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FINDING MYSELF!!!
Anyone that has went through or going through a break up or divorce has to admit that there were some signs. Most of us had those signs of unhappiness. Can you claim, why did he leave you because you were so happy with him and now you are not. I will give you that you … Continue reading FINDING MYSELF!!!
I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!
Some guy came on to me today and honey let me tell you he was hot hot. Total eye candy and I am sure, another kind of candy. I have my shares of propositions and requests for dates and somehow it just doesn’t work out. But this guy was tall, handsome, well dressed…he had it … Continue reading I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!
PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART
I can be on the treadmill and close my eyes and reach a point of stillness, of silence and drown out the clinging of the weights, the booming of the music. A place of peace and serenity. A place I never have been before. A year and a half ago I was forced out of the … Continue reading PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART
Tranquility Pools
Tranquility Pools What is this I feel in my heart What is this I feel in my soul The thrashing of the oceans have stopped The crushing of waves against the cliffs have ceased All this I carried within every part of me Developed by pain, anger, resentment At times the tides were so … Continue reading Tranquility Pools
YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY
SOMETIMES OUR MINDS ARE OUR WORST ENEMIES Through my divorce I have come to learn so much about myself, what makes me tick, who I am. I have come to the conclusion that I am not Miss Superwoman. I am a work in process. Divorce is like death and I knew it wouldnt be overnightexpect … Continue reading YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY
HOME ALONE!!!
HOME ALONE!!! By far the hardest challenge you will face with divorce will be the loneliness. I felt I lost my purpose, there was nobody to go home to after work, cook for, talk to, “Hey how was your day”. Nobody to sit and watch television with. But mostly there was nobody to lay down … Continue reading HOME ALONE!!!