Men – Starting Over After 50

Signs You Are Getting Bitter!

Now I am not going to say that I never get bitter, it is natural especially if you were the one that was left. Watch yourself and if you start talking like this, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY GETTING BITTER! Bitter alert, bitter alert! Don’t sound like this: “Did you see his new ho, she is hideous!”Continue reading “Signs You Are Getting Bitter! “

FINDING MYSELF!!!

Anyone that has went through or going through a break up or divorce has to admit that there were some signs. Most of us had those signs of unhappiness. Can you claim, why did he leave you because you were so happy with him and now you are not. I will give you that youContinue reading “FINDING MYSELF!!!”

I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!

Some guy came on to me today and honey let me tell you he was hot hot. Total eye candy and I am sure, another kind of candy. I have my shares of propositions and requests for dates and somehow it just doesn’t work out. But this guy was tall, handsome, well dressed…he had itContinue reading “I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!”

PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART

I can be on the treadmill and close my eyes and reach a point of stillness, of silence and drown out the clinging of the weights, the booming of the music. A place of peace and serenity. A place I never have been before. A year and a half ago I was forced out of theContinue reading “PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART”

Tranquility Pools

Tranquility Pools What is this I feel in my heart What is this I feel in my soul The thrashing of the oceans have stopped The crushing of waves against the cliffs have ceased All this I carried within every part of me Developed by pain, anger, resentment At times the tides were soContinue reading “Tranquility Pools”

YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY

SOMETIMES OUR MINDS ARE OUR WORST ENEMIES Through my divorce I have come to learn so much about myself, what makes me tick, who I am. I have come to the conclusion that I am not Miss Superwoman. I am a work in process. Divorce is like death and I knew it wouldnt be overnightexpectContinue reading “YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY”

HOME ALONE!!!

HOME ALONE!!! By far the hardest challenge you will face with divorce will be the loneliness. I felt I lost my purpose, there was nobody to go home to after work, cook for, talk to, “Hey how was your day”. Nobody to sit and watch television with. But mostly there was nobody to lay downContinue reading “HOME ALONE!!!”

MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND….

MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND Today I had a heavy heart. It was for my husband. You see I have a gift that I like to call intuition, some people call me bruja, some people call me gifted, others see it as going against God because you shouldn’t see what the future brings. HeyContinue reading “MY HEART ACHED FOR MY HUSBAND….”

TEACH ME HOW TO BE SINGLE!

I was just told, in order to properly heal, I have to mourn the end of one relationship before starting a new one. One step further, for up to six months! The concept of being alone is this to “find myself”. What exactly am I finding? What does this mean? Am I on the backContinue reading “TEACH ME HOW TO BE SINGLE!”

THIS LOVE OF MINE…

THIS LOVE OF MINE… The beauty of me is my loving heart There is nothing stronger about me My love is so powerful and so pure I care to the depths of my soul God gave me such an incredible gift Just approach me and you will be pulled in If asked, this is myContinue reading “THIS LOVE OF MINE…”