My Mother Came to Me Last Night

My Mother, My All Tomorrow marks one week that my mother was taken from my life yet I was not prepared for her to come to me. I cried out into the night, "Momma!" I wailed her name over and over so hard my entire body shook. When I stopped I was told that my … Continue reading My Mother Came to Me Last Night

When He Moves On And You Are Still Alone

  Which one is it? Why don't I want to date? I say it is because I am taking time I say there is nobody out there I say I don't care that he has moved on but the knot in my stomach knows so I'm at the point where I should be dating I'm … Continue reading When He Moves On And You Are Still Alone

Quotes To Move On

"Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me"  Carol Burnett "With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts". Eleanor Roosevelt "If you fell down yesterday, stand up today." H.G. Wells "To help yourself, you must be yourself. Be the best that you can be. When you make a … Continue reading Quotes To Move On

Depression

When Will You Ever Heal?

What happened to the girl that I was 4 years ago? I was on top of the world, shooting out blogs, feeling empowered, being independent. Four years later I find myself renting a room from my ex. Yeah, I know laugh, I would too if it weren't so darn humiliating.  How did it get to … Continue reading When Will You Ever Heal?

Waiting To Heal From Divorce?

Waiting To Heal From Divorce? Do you find yourself asking when will I stop hurting? I asked for 30 years, I still catch myself asking. I find myself irritated, why does it bug me that he is dating when he seems like life is peaches and orgasms. Why was he able to move on so … Continue reading Waiting To Heal From Divorce?

I’m Renting a Room At My Ex’s Home!

Believe it!  I last left off blogging about my depression because for three years I have rent rooms, going back to mom's.  I have been here and there and even stayed random nights at friends houses.  How I longed for that feeling you get after a long day at work and you just kick off … Continue reading I’m Renting a Room At My Ex’s Home!

When You Think Nobody Will Ever Compare to Your Ex

So you are back to dating, yet you find yourself comparing or looking for someone like your ex.   There is a reason why you feel nobody measures up to your ex.   You are not quite ready to date.   What is the solution you ask? Good question!   First of all it depends … Continue reading When You Think Nobody Will Ever Compare to Your Ex

Are Your Tears Creating Your Reality?

We heard it time again, we create our reality. Sounds simple, then why do we continue to ruminate on misery? Do we love it, is it comfort, do we even know how to be positive? Today is a new day. As thoughts of self pity came into my head I actually said aloud,"Stop it", and … Continue reading Are Your Tears Creating Your Reality?

14 Logical Ways to Know You May Be Dating Mr. Right!

To find a good man we need to think about what we want in a man.  The traits I accumulated are key to finding a great guy.   No more settling.  No more Mr. Losers for us.  Because we are perfect women and this time around we want a man who is going to be … Continue reading 14 Logical Ways to Know You May Be Dating Mr. Right!

Signs You Are Getting Bitter! 

Now I am not going to say that I never get bitter, it is natural especially if you were the one that was left.  Watch yourself and if you start talking like this, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY GETTING BITTER!  Bitter alert, bitter alert! Don’t sound like this: “Did you see his new ho, she is hideous!” … Continue reading Signs You Are Getting Bitter!