Divorce is easy...so I thought! Didn't even hurt..so I thought! I thought I was the divorce guru. My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me. Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeks … Continue reading Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!
My blogs have stopped because I felt I was unworthy of giving empowering words. Things were easy when I thought he was missing me and oh well I have a boyfriend who shows me attention. Life is great, I'm great and this divorce thing is a piece of cake... Then I kept getting dumped and … Continue reading Accepting He Is Divorcing Me and Has Moved On
let the past go... this is a journey I was meant to have....
MY WEARY BODY…. I am having a mini meltdown but I have to allow myself to have this. I have to let it out of my system so it doesn’t bottle up and then I need to dry my eyes, roll up my sleeves and get back to work. But for now I have to … Continue reading THIS INDEPENDANT WOMAN JUST WANTS TO REST….
Anyone that has went through or going through a break up or divorce has to admit that there were some signs. Most of us had those signs of unhappiness. Can you claim, why did he leave you because you were so happy with him and now you are not. I will give you that you … Continue reading FINDING MYSELF!!!
I can remember being in so much pain, I can remember seeing no end to the pain. I would think, ok let today be a day I don’t think of you….shit! I didn’t even last a half hour. The tears in the pillows, the breaking down at work and pretending that everything is ok. … Continue reading WILL YOU EVER FEEL LIKE A STRANGER TO ME?
Some guy came on to me today and honey let me tell you he was hot hot. Total eye candy and I am sure, another kind of candy. I have my shares of propositions and requests for dates and somehow it just doesn’t work out. But this guy was tall, handsome, well dressed…he had it … Continue reading I NEEDED HIM TO MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF!!!!
I can be on the treadmill and close my eyes and reach a point of stillness, of silence and drown out the clinging of the weights, the booming of the music. A place of peace and serenity. A place I never have been before. A year and a half ago I was forced out of the … Continue reading PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART
What does it mean that I miss you I don’t want you back I don’t want you as mine But I miss you to talk to And the exchange of our words A funny thing happened So I picked up the phone Then I remembered I hated you And put down … Continue reading BECOMING FRIENDS WITH MY EX AGAIN
LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE One of the hardest parts of learning to be alone was not having a body next to mine. Don’t get me wrong, there for a long time my husband and I were sleeping in the same bed and accidentally our feet would touch and it was like Kryptonite. I would … Continue reading LEARNING TO SLEEP ALONE