We heard it time again, we create our reality. Sounds simple, then why do we continue to ruminate on misery? Do we love it, is it comfort, do we even know how to be positive? Today is a new day. As thoughts of self pity came into my head I actually said aloud,"Stop it", and … Continue reading Are Your Tears Creating Your Reality?
To find a good man we need to think about what we want in a man. The traits I accumulated are key to finding a great guy. No more settling. No more Mr. Losers for us. Because we are perfect women and this time around we want a man who is going to be … Continue reading 14 Logical Ways to Know You May Be Dating Mr. Right!
Now I am not going to say that I never get bitter, it is natural especially if you were the one that was left. Watch yourself and if you start talking like this, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY GETTING BITTER! Bitter alert, bitter alert! Don’t sound like this: “Did you see his new ho, she is hideous!” … Continue reading Signs You Are Getting Bitter!
Divorce is easy...so I thought! Didn't even hurt..so I thought! I thought I was the divorce guru. My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me. Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeks … Continue reading Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!
My blogs have stopped because I felt I was unworthy of giving empowering words. Things were easy when I thought he was missing me and oh well I have a boyfriend who shows me attention. Life is great, I'm great and this divorce thing is a piece of cake... Then I kept getting dumped and … Continue reading Accepting He Is Divorcing Me and Has Moved On
let the past go... this is a journey I was meant to have....
MY WEARY BODY…. I am having a mini meltdown but I have to allow myself to have this. I have to let it out of my system so it doesn’t bottle up and then I need to dry my eyes, roll up my sleeves and get back to work. But for now I have to … Continue reading THIS INDEPENDANT WOMAN JUST WANTS TO REST….