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Quotes To Grow When Lonely

  "I'm learning a lot "myself being alone, and doing what I'm doing." Chantal Kreviazuk "The time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by your self." Douglas Coupland "When everything is lonely I can be my best friend." Conor Oberst "I restore myself when I am alone." Marilyn Monroe "I … Continue reading Quotes To Grow When Lonely

Are Your Tears Creating Your Reality?

We heard it time again, we create our reality. Sounds simple, then why do we continue to ruminate on misery? Do we love it, is it comfort, do we even know how to be positive? Today is a new day. As thoughts of self pity came into my head I actually said aloud,"Stop it", and … Continue reading Are Your Tears Creating Your Reality?

Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

Divorce is easy...so I thought!   Didn't even hurt..so I thought!   I thought I was the divorce guru.  My hubby of almost 30 YEARS dumped me.  Know what happened to me? I grabbed me a new boyfriend in Vegas and life was all about finding cute clothes and keeping in shape. Every three weeks … Continue reading Why Dating Right After A Break-Up Is All Bad!

FINDING MYSELF!!!

Anyone that has went through or going through a break up or divorce has to admit that there were some signs.  Most of us had those signs of unhappiness.  Can you claim, why did he leave you because you were so happy with him and now you are not.  I will give you that you … Continue reading FINDING MYSELF!!!

PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART

I can be on the treadmill and close my eyes and reach a point of stillness, of silence and drown out the clinging of the weights, the booming of the music.  A place of peace and serenity. A place I never have been before. A year and a half ago I was forced out of the … Continue reading PEACE OF MIND…PEACE IN YOUR HEART

LEARNING TO EAT ALONE

Learning to Eat Alone I was extra hungry tonight. What a crazy day, it was so crazy I missed lunch, for me that is CRAZY because me missing a meal? Yeah right. Nobody is going to believe that. I grew up in a big Latin family and cooking is in my blood and it was … Continue reading LEARNING TO EAT ALONE

Tranquility Pools

  Tranquility Pools What is this I feel in my heart What is this I feel in my soul The thrashing of the oceans have stopped The crushing of waves against the cliffs have ceased All this I carried within every part of me Developed by pain, anger, resentment At times the tides were so … Continue reading Tranquility Pools

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM

BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM Have you ever thought that maybe you are not happy with your life after divorce/separation because you don’t want to be?  Now, now, before you start sending me “hate” replies, keep reading so I can explain.  I watched this documentary on happiness and they showed this family that lived in South … Continue reading BE HAPPY WITHOUT HIM

Healing From A Divorce

Healing From a Divorce I picked up a book called…well maybe I shouldn’t blast the name of the book since I don’t want those two crazy …yes crazy…authors coming after me. I wouldn’t even line the bottom of a bird-cage for birds to poop on. I take it back, I do want birds to poop … Continue reading Healing From A Divorce

YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY

SOMETIMES OUR MINDS ARE OUR WORST ENEMIES Through my divorce I have come to learn so much about myself, what makes me tick, who I am. I have come to the conclusion that I am not Miss Superwoman. I am a work in process. Divorce is like death and I knew it wouldnt be overnightexpect … Continue reading YOUR BRAIN CAN BE YOUR WORST ENEMY