About Catalina


When I started…January 17, 2013

Hi my name is Catalina, I was kicked to the curb after almost 30 years of being together/married. I was with this man since I was 17…a babe.

It hasn’t been peaches and orgasms, but it was my safety net, my blankie to keep me safe from facing the real world. My life was not happy with him. BUT IT WAS ALL I KNEW AND I WAS AFRAID OF THE WORLD!!

Who will fix my car! OMG I will have to make it by myself financially. Everything by myself! What if a man breaks into our house! (Note to self…buy a bat).

This blog is about my topsy-turvy crazy eccentric life and how I am dealing with it…let me back up…falling on my face, picking myself up over and over and over, dusting myself off…and going forward again…because I am going to do this thing called life…Independent Life and I welcome you to get some popcorn…sit down and enjoy the show!!!

This is what my blog is about… My trials.. my tribulations… my letdowns… my meltdowns… my victories… as a 50ish woman who has to make it on her own!

I leave you with this quote… I may be a little girl who wants someones  shoulder to cry on but I will grow and become a strong independent woman living on her own…AND LOVE IT!


  1. Alicia says:

    I think this blog is an awesome idea. Stay strong cousin and know you have family that you can rely on


  2. Sarah Myers says:

    Thanks for stopping by and visiting the noontimes! Good luck with the blog. You have a great idea!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. I will be visiting again!!


  3. Debbie says:

    After reading your post above, Catalina, I would love to be a “fly on the wall” as you read through Shadows of Love. I would love to be able to read your mind while you sort through some of the posts.

    I responded on the Shadows of Love blog to the question you posted on “about Love and Forgiveness”. In short, the answer is, yes, the writings are mine…at least 500 of them.

    I hope to hear from you often. Thank you for the great blessing and compliment.



  4. I am SO glad you found my blog and decided to leave a comment – it’s always nice to know you’re not alone in your feelings/trials. People who aren’t going through whatever we’re going through find it easy to give advice,”Keep your chin up” etc; and while their sentiment is appreciated, again, it’s nice to be able to connect with someone who can actually relate to whatever you’re facing.
    With that being said – keep up with your writing. It’s always been therapeutic to me. I’ve found it’s a good “brain dump/flush”, thus preventing me from staying up too late at night.

    I wish you enough.


    1. Thank you soooo much!!


  5. reocochran says:

    This looks so great! You are doing well with your past spurt of new posts and now your new look! Good luck and keep us listening while laughing and sharing your ups and downs.


  6. Topaz says:

    Thank you for liking my post today!

    As someone mentioned, writing is very therapeutic. I look forward to reading more of your posts.


    1. I loved your post…but there is not a love button


  7. Joy says:

    Thanks for liking my post — blogging is an amazing way to get through a hard time. Free therapy! And I’m speaking from experience 🙂 wishing you health, peace and happiness… Namaste.


  8. Noelene says:

    You are so brave – thank you for sharing your story. I look forward to watching you “grow to be a strong independent woman and live on your own…AND LOVE IT!”

    Thank you for liking my post and bringing me to your blog!



  9. You will find yourself, and many parts of you that you didn’t even know existed! I, too, am a divorcee, for over 10 yrs now. It’s been a long crazy journey but love who I have become. Strong independent confident and not willing to let anybody tell me how to live my life. I hope you find peace in the process and can embrace the many positive changes you will be going through. All the best 🙂


    1. Thank you so much. it helps to hear from others and hear that how they have grown. You are awesome!


  10. learningtocry says:

    Warm hugs to you . You will make it to the other side of the mountain. I know the climb is rocky and very scary at times.
    Keep loving yourself.
    I’ve been there myself.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. You are inspiring as your writing is. I hope one day i can grow up to be a grown up…lol


  11. Thanks so much for taking time to read my blog post on Separation and Emotional Scars. I hope you found some useful information. I admire you striking out on your own after divorce, handling literally everything yourself. Hope we stay in contact. I’d love to read more of what you have to say.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Of course, you have the most beautiful poetry


  12. secretangel says:

    So many of us have had those same fears… but then realized how much better off we were without the abuse of our exes. Many blessings to you.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. You are an angel and that is no secret…hey i made a funny. Thank you so much I need words like yours.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. secretangel says:

        Many thanks and many blessings to you! i really appreciate your support.

        Liked by 1 person

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  21. lorieb says:

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